3 Keys to avoid the failure

If we assume that human is the same as natural.

There are three things that you need to consider if you want to avoid the failure of anything you would do.

When is the appropriate time to do the thing?

Who is the most important person that we should work with?

What is the important mission that we should do all the time?

The answer is quite simple and impressive.

"Present" is the most important time.

The most important person is the "person in front of us."

And, "To make the person in front of us feels happy" is the most important mission that we should do.

Practicing yourself to live the life in the present, with the surrounding people and nature 

is a thing that we should do by "mindful mediation."

Whenever someone get in troubles, their mind are full of bad thing. if they were trying to wash those bad thing from their mind, it is equal to increase those bad thing to their mind again and decrease pure mind. Look at those bad thing and do not trying to do anything. Let the law of energy wash them. By this way, They will be able to keep their power before they lost. 

ชีวิตที่หยุดหมุน

ในความเป็นจริง ชีวิตเราต้องหมุนอยู่เสมอ

หมุนไปสู่ความเปลี่ยนแปลงใหม่ๆ ที่เราจะได้พบเจอ

แต่ปัจจุบัน ผมรู้สึกได้ถึงชีวิตที่หยุดนิ่ง ของตัวเอง

ไม่ก้าวเดินไปไหน ไม่มีแรงชักจูงนำพาลากไป ไม่ไขว่คว้าหาทางหมุนตัวเอง

แค่เพียงผมหยุด คนทั้งโลกก็เดินก้าวนำหน้าเราไปแล้ว

เพราะโลกและกิจกรรมบนโลก ดำเนินอยู่ตลอดเวลา

ที่รู้สึกอย่างนี้ เพราะเห็นชีวิตคนรอบข้างหลายๆ คน

มีการเปลี่ยนแปลง ที่ทั้งผมรู้สึกว่าสิ่งที่เปลี่ยนนั้นมีทั้งดีขึ้นและด้อยลง

แต่นั่นก็ถือว่าได้เปลี่ยนแปลง ได้ก้าวข้ามผ่านสิ่งซ้ำๆ ไปอีกก้าว

บางคนได้งานใหม่ บางคนรูปร่างหน้าตาเปลี่ยนไป สวยขึ้น แก่ลง

บางคนนิสัยก็เปลี่ยนไป บางคนเปลี่ยนจากนักเรียนเป็นคนทำงาน 

หรือบางคนเปลี่ยนจากทำงานมาเป็นนักเรียน สิ่งเหล่านี้ล้วนเปลี่ยนชีวิตพวกเขามากมาย

แต่ผมกลับรู้สึกว่า ตัวผมนั่นแหละเป็นคนที่หยุดชีวิตของตัวเอง ...

ผมรู้สึกตัวผมนั้น หยุดนิ่งมาชั่วขณะหนึ่งแล้ว

ทั้งเรื่องงาน เรื่องชีวิต และเรื่องปัญญา

คงต้องถึงเวลาบูรณะใหม่ ที่จะไม่ผลาญเวลาในชีวิตให้หมดไป อย่างไร้ค่า

ใช้แต่ละเสี้ยวนาที ผลักดัน ให้ชีวิตก้าวเดินต่อไป อย่างมีคุณค่า และมีสติ 

ยังมีความสนุกตื่นเต้น รอเราอยู่อีกมากนักนะ ชีวิตนี้

เรื่องของคน

คนจะงาม งามที่ใจ ใช่ใบหน้า

คนจะสวย สวยจรรยา ใช่ตาหวาน

คนจะแก่ แก่ความรู้ ใช่อยู่นาน

คนจะรวย รวยศีลทาน ใช่บ้านโต

อยู่อย่างขาดฝัน มันจะทรมาน

Loneliness, a state of mind

When I was in my home country. I did not quite get quiescece of activities in my office. Almost everyday had been bursting with activities – the phone ringing endlessly, the guests coming every hour and the printers working overtime – I would think I am working in a New York stock market. 

The thing had changed since I moved to work in Zen-style, way of life, country. Everyday like today when it is so quiet that you can hear a pin drop from a far distance. And it is on days like today – so quiet – that I am overwhelmed with the feeling of loneliness. I am in doubt whether it is caused by a nature of East world or a kind of job where everyone has a separated work and need no communication.

Although I have a bunch of work to finish, I have no concentration to work on them since all of then need idea and inspiration. I inevitably turn to a useless-for-work activity – blog-hopping. I find myself in awe with a blog of Tale of Psychological Damage. The author wrote that “you are lonely because you are too focused on your loneliness.” I was dumb struck. That seems to be true! Do I feel lonely right now because I am too focused on the loneliness?

A long for those days, I was so busy. I could hardly answer personal phone calls while I spent whole of my concentration on doing work. And so lunch time was a break that I looked forward to after a friendly banter with friends as what we should eat or discussing humorous topics. Nowadays, I occasionally have boring lunch with colleagues. Sometimes I don’t even bother with lunch at all. How pathetic can that be! I could not be entertained by the topics or give a funny talk as I used to do. My motivation of learning new language had also disappeared. No one except me that should be blamed since my poor skill. I hardly understand what they said. Sometimes, I could not catch even the mentioned words that I would take them for searching the meaning later after lunch as I used to do. Speed, intonation, accent, expression or whatever the cause is, it reduces my self-esteem and makes me feel apart from a group day by day. Uncomfortable situation while you are sitting in a world that you do not hear anything and have to guess all the time consumes a large energy more than expecting.

Forget about those things and switch back to my loneliness. I found out the quote, “Loneliness, lonesome and solitude is a state of mind. Dwell in it if you dare, the abyss of depression would come uninvited. Depression another humongous reserve of unexplained behaviors known to man would slowly rear its ugly head if we stay there too long.”

Theoretically, loneliness is a state of mind. Just like smoking, you intend to quit depends on your state of mind. Can you dictate your state of mind then? I will try although I finally end up with I cannot. At least, I will let not this loneliness lead to depression again. I will make peace with it. The same way I make peace with things I can’t change.

Enjoy the day folks.

When the sky turns blue

After hard storm, the sky will be so blue and clear. Actually, the sky is normally being like this color since the world begins, but we cannot see its beautifulness until the the dreadful disaster happened. 

It is the same as our life. We will not recognize the real value of the possessed thing until we lost it. How do human beings usually be so late on recognizing their values of life? And, how do we human beings survive such suffering and thrive in spite of it? 

Dear Friend

Dear friend,

I am thinking of you so much.

I thought that you will stay beside me forever and sharing happiness together

as long as we still alive, but it is not true . . .

You departed from my life and it is not your fault.

You walked away from my way not because of your desire, 

but because I chased you.

You used to come to say hi and visit me sometimes,

but I denied to see you.

Now, I realize that I need you. I want you to be by my side as before.

When you were with me, I could do everything as I want happily.

I could master my life as I want when I was think of that I will meet you in soon.

I can lessen my diffidence and insecureness when you are in my mind.

Oh... Come on! Please come back to me.

I need my dear friend back, MOTIVATION.

[my poetry]